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Rejection and the
Law of Attraction
by Gary
Nordgren
As each of us grow up we find ourselves at one time or another rejected.
Sometimes it is by a spouse, a partner, your own child, a boss, a friend, a potential employee
or employer, or even a potential romantic partner. What happens after the rejection for you? Do
you believe the rejection? Do you mull it over and contemplate it. Do you argue within your
brain for days? Do you run from it? Do let go of it? Do you let it run your life? Do you feel
ruined by it or do you feel ready to change?
I have had some personal rejections in my life that felt
like they were big ones. From being fired to being rejected personally. The first time I was
“let go from a job” they gave me some lame excuses but it was difficult for me to
handle. It was part time work while I was going to school. I took it hard as a newly
married 22-year-old.
For me, I had no knowledge of Law of Attraction or any
universal laws at that time and took it very personally and kept asking myself how I created
that result. I really didn’t know how I created that result. I keep mulling over it and
having those loud arguments in my brain about it.
Then years later I had a friend disappear off of the map.
We were riding the light rail to a local mall –our first time on the light rail
transportation. We were supposed to meet back at a certain place and he was no place to be
found. I looked and looked for about an hour and a half. He wouldn’t answer his
phone. My friend of 18 years had done some
like this before but not with this kind of weird behavior, disappearing while we where
doing something together. I had started to study energy and intention by this time. But I
couldn’t get over it at the moment when I realized my friend did his disappearing
act.
For days I found myself having many debates inside of me as
to why this friend disappeared. I argued both sides very loudly in my head. My ego was
involved on both sides of the issue. I had no peace inside. I was battling inside about what
I could have done to CAUSE his behavior. It almost felt like I was trying to find answers and
give myself approval through these arguments. I finally mentally used a technique I learned
in NLP. I took the arguing after hours of non-stop ego that kept spearing my worth, my
self-concept and my peace and I quieted the voices by turning them down a little and then
taking the volume all the way down mentally until all I had was silence. The voices were
arguing still in my head but with no noise, no drama, no energy.
I didn’t realize I had the power to silence the yelling in
my head before then. I recently found myself doing a similar kind of arguing in my head about
something and I did that process again and the voices went quiet. Mind you they felt exactly
like those same voices as before.
As I have thought about situations that we create in our
lives and how as much as we try NOT to have something happen, it is, in a way, beyond our
control. What I mean is that many things we have set up long ago in our vibration are still
active because we haven’t changed their energy. Most likely we didn’t even know that we were
still feeling that energy from the past inside us. Until all parts of that vibration play out
at the end of the play, that vibration once felt and believed still has the momentum of that
first moment we put it into play.
Let’s imagine that you go up in a plane and jump out with a
parachute. You have a very fast decent from the plane until you open your chute. One way or
another, the consequences of jumping from the plane have to happen. You fall to the ground
with a soft landing or a rather large thud. Just as we believed and felt a feeling – it is
like the person who jumps from the plane. Gravity or the Law of Attraction must bring you to
the end of your belief of what you feel to be true even if it takes years to get the
consequence of that feeling.
Now let’s say you imagined something from twenty years ago
and felt it to be true of life for yourself or another person. What would happen? If you had
a feeling of it happening, then it will come to pass like the night follows the day. It is
set in motion. The only way to stop it is to revisit the exact belief and feel a new thing
about it – otherwise it comes to pass.
I personally created something that started over 19 years
ago that happened in the last week. I had felt this feeling many times and didn’t “want it”
at all but believed it would happen. I had forgotten mostly about this vibration that I had
set up with this situation and it still came about exactly as I had felt.
“Hmmmm,” I thought. “How could I create this
in my life when I had no recent energized thoughts about this?” As I examined my own thoughts
over the years I KNOW I CREATE it even though it involved two other people.
It is amazing how the Law of Attraction delivers to you
what you believe in. And it came about 100% exactly as I have felt it before over the years.
Have you ever done this for yourself?
Have you ever believed that because now that you practice
Law of Attraction, you now are immune to your past thoughts and vibrational beliefs?
It actually is true that you are immune to those thoughts
possibly but if you feel the same thing again the other vibration that you set up comes into
play.
In fact it is more like you wrote a role in your own script
that you will perform exactly on cue, even if it is not who you are today. You might get that
sensation that you aren’t your self like I did. You feel powerless to stop the words,
actions, or ideas come to you at that time.
Now if you never entertain this feeling anymore from the
past and situations do not come into your life because of it, then you aren’t activating that
particular vibrational mix and usually it won’t show up in your life.
Most of us don’t change or transform our lives instantly so
we still have to deal with the momentum from our past felt feelings.
What to do with them after they happen?
One of the first things to do is let go of all of your past
meanings attached to this “thing” or “situation” that has happened. Understand how you
created it through the Law of Attraction or Universal law. Understand you created the mental
equivalent of it first on the inside with your thoughts, feelings, and believing capacities.
Second, acknowledge that you created a result... that you
felt it in some way or another and believed it into your life.
Third, you want to really appreciate your own power for
bringing you this result. It doesn’t matter how you label your results – just appreciate that
you have created them for your life. Now this isn’t an excuse for blaming yourself and
mentally beating yourself up. This is about taking your ability to respond to your own
vibration and feelings and appreciating your own hand and your own power in creating this
result.
Fourth, realize that you are an adaptive spiritual being
that creates her/his life by believing something to be true by accepting it as your own
reality. Your beliefs are plastic-like because you can mold them into anything you truly want
to believe.
Fifth, create a place inside of you as a metaphor that
learning Law of Attraction is an adventure of your life. Every result you get that you don’t
want is like a pirate boarding your ship without your awareness. And the only way to make a
pirate disappear in your spiritual adventure is to erase, transform, change, let go of, or
revise what the pirate is to you. What this means is each adventure in Law of Attraction is a
way to learn to believe in what you want instead of what you don’t
want.
Now go ahead and take the next rejection and use your
ability to respond to your new choices. Pause and recreate a new place for you to
go.
This article is © Copyrighted 2008 by Gary Nordgren
Gary Nordgren is The Law of Attraction
Business Coach. You can reach him at www.PersistentSuccess.com to transform
your business. He has lead many Tele-Workshops and Classs on Law of Attraction that are in recorded
format on www.LOA-U.com and continues to create new Classs and
Tele-Workshops. Gar also puts on Free LIVE Classs and Free LIVE Seminars at www.Persistentsuccess.com .
He is the founder of The
Neville Project at www.NevilleLectureHall.com . You
can forward this article provided you keep all the copyright and author acknowledgements from
the original publishing of this article.
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